“In
a court of law, the prosecution and the defense both have the opportunity to
present their case. At the point at which they have had their opportunity to
completely cover their concerns, they rest their case.
I
believe it’s a healthy moment where the team can say, I’ve done everything I
can. Now I rest.
Sometimes,
we could do the same. We’ve given our best effort to solve the problem, nothing
more we can do, and can’t change history. Time to give it a rest. Hallelujah!”
TC SPEAK JULY 17 Commissioner James Knaggs
Oh,
if it were that simple for both parties. On one side is a multimillion dollar
global corporation and on the other, a Salvation Army officer, living in ‘loaned’
accommodations, driving a borrowed vehicle and with temporary working
arrangements that can be altered at the corporation’s whim. OK, perhaps not
quite that dramatic, however, the corporation vs the officer does indeed often
resemble a David and Goliath show down.
When
the time comes for an officer to consider his resignation, and it comes to most
all of us, who is there for us? How do we break through the middle management
mire to communicate with those in control and who have the necessary skill,
education, compassion and experience to speak with integrity?
FSAOF
were recently invited, with others, to meet in conversation with territorial
leaders of the USA Eastern territory, the first such initiative of which we are
aware. It was a time dedicated to explore; RESTORATION, RECONCILIATION and
RENEWAL. The discussions were frank and respectful. Apologies from TSA provided
the necessary integrity and honesty, ethical principles removing immediately all
perceptions of partiality. There were no artificial constructs and the
conversation flowed freely with emotion. No apologies were necessary as pent up
sentiments, some withheld for a decade or more, were released, often with a
flood of tears.
It was a holy time, a time of healing.
Sven Ljungholm
1 comment:
I saw Comm. Jim Knaggs apology and thought how timely that was. Some of our former friends have experienced trauma over their leaving and none of that is recognized by the system that makes sure all its' legal considerations are met. We must find a better way to help officers make this transition to a different phase of their lives more gracefully. We must also hold to account, those leaders who precipitate this tragedy because of their lack of servant leader qualities and low levels of emotional intelligence.
Thank you for the work you are doing. I know your heart is to minimize the numbers leaving and facilitate the return of those who are able. May God bless your efforts.
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