To
reconcile is to bring into harmony; to restore friendly relations. Officers consecrate themselves to a ministry
of reconciling people to the heavenly Father.
And all things are of God, who
hath reconciled us to himself by Jesus Christ, and hath given to us the
ministry of reconciliation (2 Corinthians 5:18). Officers also work in an office, where every
month they reconcile the ledger
balance to the bank balance for each account.
In accounting, these balances are different, but not necessarily at
odds. One adjusts the ledger balance for
transactions that have not been given proper consideration by the bank, and for
bank activity that was not reflected in the ledger. Reconciliation though, is astonishingly absent when an
officer removes the red and turns in the tunic.
In accounting, this is divestment.
Signing
the covenant, an officer invests all of his or her assets. This is a religious and spiritual investment first,
and an ecclesiastical promise second. That
notwithstanding, on the ecclesiastical side, the officer agrees to marry an
officer, to reject the rights granted to employees, and to seek permission prior
to travelling out of the division (immediate area). The
officer wears the uniform, drives the Army’s vehicle, works extreme hours, and
moves his or her nuclear family to live where an Army leader decides. The Army invests costly training, guarantee
of assignment, and excellent health coverage.
The officer and the Army are mutually vested.
Leaving
rank is a sudden, massive loss of personal identity, social status, and social
support; and a traumatic change of lifestyle, no matter who initiates the
separation. Some are asked to leave for administrative
reasons; some choose to leave over disillusionment or doctrinal
differences. Others succumb to stress on
family or personal life. The newly
former officer must seek housing, employment, transportation, insurances, and a
new social support system. Many are
inexperienced in managing these fiscal responsibilities on their own and not
accustomed to having to forge friendships outside of the Army’s fellowship. Some deal with loss of a marriage at the same
time. Many experience symptoms of
posttraumatic stress from the sudden and complete break with a formerly
supportive, dependency-provoking, and all-inclusive relationship with the Army. The Former Salvation Army Officers Fellowship
has been an invaluable resource to former officers
Former
officers who once wooed drunkards,
sinners and backsliders home have
reported an absence of pastoral care and have suffered treatment that was
tantamount to shunning. 'Formers' who had
opened homeless shelters and soup kitchens have themselves faced homelessness
and economic crises. On the other side,
in many cases, the Army has lost opportunities to help formers to transition to
effective soldier-ship, employment, volunteer service, or advisory board
membership.
Divestment must not
trump a ministry of reconciliation. In
Catholicism, there is a sacrament of reconciliation. It is more commonly called confession. Perhaps we should start this process with
confession. There have been important
instances of this in USA East and USA West.
Penitence and repentance activate divine healing. Reconciliation is becoming friendly after
estrangement. It is
re-consecration. It is a godly
goal. Leave thy gift before the altar, and go thy way; first be reconciled to
thy brother, and then come and offer thy gift (Matthew 5:24). God was
in Christ, reconciling the world unto himself, not imputing their trespasses
unto them; and hath committed unto us the word of reconciliation (2
Corinthians 5:19).
The author was an
officer in the USA East Territory for ten years, and now works as a textbook
author, professor of modern languages, and pre-trial competency examiner/expert
witness in criminal cases.


7 comments:
Powerful, Bob. your description of the investment/divestment is very helpful. 'Leaving rank is a sudden, massive loss of personal identity, social status, and social support . . ." - you're correct in that statement, but it makes me wonder about the dependency that is fostered by the institutional structure.
JoAnn, USA East
semi-former (retired early)
Excellent Bob. You have expressed truths that been echoed by many and although not always expressed, felt by many others. Perhaps the dialog between Formers and the Salvation Army can be begun in some instances, and continued in others.
Thanks for this!
USA Central
The Army's paternalistic hold over its officers is a matter of control. OK's go into the work with their eyes open, but those who are not, are unaware of the price they will pay for security. By the time they realize it, their freedom is limited. Many stay, because they have become co-dependent.
Leaving for any reason is traumatic. I was an officer for four years. When I left I was shunned. Fortunately, I was single, held down three jobs, and saved enough money to go to university. I met my wife in my first year. She was a teacher, and supported me through university and seminary. Without her help I would not have made it.
The Army should pay its officers a decent salary and housing allowance, and let them live like everyone else. Officers would become more entreprenuerial, less fearful about speaking their mind, and less likely to suffer from depression. I am positive it would cut the attrition rate by half.
Former
Canada and Bermuda
Though is is an exhaustive list of what we lose the good news is we recover and advance to new things. Good article. Thanks.
I watched one of my favorite movies on TV this morning. It was the Nun story. After leaving Officership I was married and had a baby and this movie came on TV. I sat and watched relating to some of the things this nun went through while in service. The ending was the most significant when she took off her Habit for the last time and walked out the door into an unknown different world and life. Still stirs up emotions with in me. Having known the Salvation Army all my life growing up, our home away from home, being so involved then going through Training and that day came when I took off my uniform for the last time and walked out the door into a different world. Well its all over and water over the bridge. All these years later I look at the Salvation Army differently , still am thankful for my upbringing in it and the influence on my life. And this movie still stirs up emotions .
Thanks, Bob. Your article caused me to take a trip down memory lane. You have indeed covered so many of the realities of transitioning from Officer to former Officer. I also believe that the Army could stem the tide of Officers who resign. Better pastoral care during Officership would be a major first step. However, providing this needed care after resignation could also have a profound effect on the individual's well-being & on the Army's (i.e., more former Officers might consider returning to Officership).
Blessings.
Elizabeth
Former Officer
Canada & Bermuda
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