Saturday, December 15, 2012

Divestment versus Reconciliation


The Former Officer: Divestment versus Reconciliation


To reconcile is to bring into harmony; to restore friendly relations.  Officers consecrate themselves to a ministry of reconciling people to the heavenly Father.  And all things are of God, who hath reconciled us to himself by Jesus Christ, and hath given to us the ministry of reconciliation (2 Corinthians 5:18).  Officers also work in an office, where every month they reconcile the ledger balance to the bank balance for each account.  In accounting, these balances are different, but not necessarily at odds.  One adjusts the ledger balance for transactions that have not been given proper consideration by the bank, and for bank activity that was not reflected in the ledger.  Reconciliation though, is astonishingly absent when an officer removes the red and turns in the tunic.  In accounting, this is divestment.

Signing the covenant, an officer invests all of his or her assets.  This is a religious and spiritual investment first, and an ecclesiastical promise second.  That notwithstanding, on the ecclesiastical side, the officer agrees to marry an officer, to reject the rights granted to employees, and to seek permission prior to travelling out of the division (immediate area).  The officer wears the uniform, drives the Army’s vehicle, works extreme hours, and moves his or her nuclear family to live where an Army leader decides.  The Army invests costly training, guarantee of assignment, and excellent health coverage.  The officer and the Army are mutually vested.

Leaving rank is a sudden, massive loss of personal identity, social status, and social support; and a traumatic change of lifestyle, no matter who initiates the separation.  Some are asked to leave for administrative reasons; some choose to leave over disillusionment or doctrinal differences.  Others succumb to stress on family or personal life.  The newly former officer must seek housing, employment, transportation, insurances, and a new social support system.  Many are inexperienced in managing these fiscal responsibilities on their own and not accustomed to having to forge friendships outside of the Army’s fellowship.  Some deal with loss of a marriage at the same time.  Many experience symptoms of posttraumatic stress from the sudden and complete break with a formerly supportive, dependency-provoking, and all-inclusive relationship with the Army.  The Former Salvation Army Officers Fellowship has been an invaluable resource to former officers

Former officers who once wooed drunkards, sinners and backsliders home have reported an absence of pastoral care and have suffered treatment that was tantamount to shunning.  'Formers' who had opened homeless shelters and soup kitchens have themselves faced homelessness and economic crises.  On the other side, in many cases, the Army has lost opportunities to help formers to transition to effective soldier-ship, employment, volunteer service, or advisory board membership.

Divestment must not trump a ministry of reconciliation.  In Catholicism, there is a sacrament of reconciliation.  It is more commonly called confession.  Perhaps we should start this process with confession.  There have been important instances of this in USA East and USA West.  Penitence and repentance activate divine healing.  Reconciliation is becoming friendly after estrangement.  It is re-consecration.  It is a godly goal.  Leave thy gift before the altar, and go thy way; first be reconciled to thy brother, and then come and offer thy gift (Matthew 5:24).  God was in Christ, reconciling the world unto himself, not imputing their trespasses unto them; and hath committed unto us the word of reconciliation (2 Corinthians 5:19).

Robert O. Chase, MSW, LCSW


The author was an officer in the USA East Territory for ten years, and now works as a textbook author, professor of modern languages, and pre-trial competency examiner/expert witness in criminal cases.

7 comments:

JoAnn Shade said...

Powerful, Bob. your description of the investment/divestment is very helpful. 'Leaving rank is a sudden, massive loss of personal identity, social status, and social support . . ." - you're correct in that statement, but it makes me wonder about the dependency that is fostered by the institutional structure.
JoAnn, USA East
semi-former (retired early)

Anonymous said...

Excellent Bob. You have expressed truths that been echoed by many and although not always expressed, felt by many others. Perhaps the dialog between Formers and the Salvation Army can be begun in some instances, and continued in others.

Anonymous said...

Thanks for this!
USA Central

Anonymous said...

The Army's paternalistic hold over its officers is a matter of control. OK's go into the work with their eyes open, but those who are not, are unaware of the price they will pay for security. By the time they realize it, their freedom is limited. Many stay, because they have become co-dependent.

Leaving for any reason is traumatic. I was an officer for four years. When I left I was shunned. Fortunately, I was single, held down three jobs, and saved enough money to go to university. I met my wife in my first year. She was a teacher, and supported me through university and seminary. Without her help I would not have made it.

The Army should pay its officers a decent salary and housing allowance, and let them live like everyone else. Officers would become more entreprenuerial, less fearful about speaking their mind, and less likely to suffer from depression. I am positive it would cut the attrition rate by half.

Former
Canada and Bermuda

FloridaFlamingo said...

Though is is an exhaustive list of what we lose the good news is we recover and advance to new things. Good article. Thanks.

Anonymous said...

I watched one of my favorite movies on TV this morning. It was the Nun story. After leaving Officership I was married and had a baby and this movie came on TV. I sat and watched relating to some of the things this nun went through while in service. The ending was the most significant when she took off her Habit for the last time and walked out the door into an unknown different world and life. Still stirs up emotions with in me. Having known the Salvation Army all my life growing up, our home away from home, being so involved then going through Training and that day came when I took off my uniform for the last time and walked out the door into a different world. Well its all over and water over the bridge. All these years later I look at the Salvation Army differently , still am thankful for my upbringing in it and the influence on my life. And this movie still stirs up emotions .
















Anonymous said...

Thanks, Bob. Your article caused me to take a trip down memory lane. You have indeed covered so many of the realities of transitioning from Officer to former Officer. I also believe that the Army could stem the tide of Officers who resign. Better pastoral care during Officership would be a major first step. However, providing this needed care after resignation could also have a profound effect on the individual's well-being & on the Army's (i.e., more former Officers might consider returning to Officership).

Blessings.

Elizabeth
Former Officer
Canada & Bermuda